Second child

The second child's jealousy is very natural. Until the birth of the second child the only child who is sultanate finds himself suddenly losing this privilege. Now he has to divide the love of his mother, grandfather, grandfather, and others. Until then, when he was like a king of a small country, he fell to give a share to this kingdom that he had never known. In the early years of life, it is easy to see the child's brother as a complete opponent, no matter how tight the ties are between the child and his mother. Of course, the reaction of children to this situation is varied. This reaction depends on the character of the child, his or her tendencies, and the training given to him. If the elder brothers and sisters who are common to the drawing are examined, among them, to kill the younger brother, do not eat, Behave differently from one another to passive resistance to some sort of passive resistance. Information they already have, such as smearing gold, eating without a meal, using a spoon, etc. As well as older brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters who act well with the new sister, even with affection. But to lose the sovereignty of those who are good to your little brother they should not think that they are not upset/ismail.



The parents' role in the child's reactions is great. Mom and dad are a little guilty in the most negative reactions. In this case, when the child unintentionally falls into it, they sometimes do not realize the violent pain, do not understand the stubborn and opposite attitude; Even punishment. If Hele weeps and makes the baby awake by noise, or if the baby is being cleaned, if the mother wants to draw the attention of her mother while she is being fed, the parents become even more impatient. Beating, even scolding is nothing but worsening the situation. Because if the child is beaten or rebuked, he will hold the younger brother responsible for it.

Too bad a mother and father seemed to compare the aggressiveness of their older children with the style of the newborn baby, "Look! Is your brother coming out loud? " In this case, the child becomes completely angry with his brother, who is shown as a good example to himself.

How should children behave in order to welcome their children? Competition among children is inevitable; But there are ways to reduce it and put it in a style that will not sink. Everything depends on the child's preparation for the birth of his brother.

The work of English and American pedagogues is very important and valuable. As noted in many works in the English language, a period of not less than 3.5 years must pass between the birth of two children. These authors suggest that a child between three and five years of age can best prepare for shock. In this age, the child is a bit torn from the tight bonds that bind him and his mother. Attention has turned to various topics. Their needs are very different from the needs of the milkboy. For this reason, the possibility of a competitive situation is a remote possibility. The child is a brother. Your brother's birth helps him to take the first step towards giving him decency.

You also have to prepare your child for a one-time-birth-house. It is important for the child not to think of himself or forgotten. When he is born, the child should be told that his mother has been away from home for a while.